In memory of Erma Bombeck


who lost her fight with cancer.


As I grow older I reflect on my life as I am sure you do too. We reflect on all the things we have done and we begin to regret the things we did not do. I believe we need to change this to what we still can achieve in our life time and start to do the things that would make us happy. I am going to include writing by the late Erma Bombeck, it is one of my favorites I hope you enjoy it as much as I do and my friends, have a wonderful day!

Susie Austin






I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of
pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I
weren’t there for the day.
I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose
before it melted in storage.

I would have talked less and listened more.

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet
was stained, or the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the ‘good’ living room and
worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to
light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble
about his youth.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a
summer day because my hair had just been teased and

I would have sat on the lawn with my children and not worried
about grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television-
and more while watching life.

I would never have bought anything just because it was
practical, wouldn’t show soil, or was guaranteed to last a

Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I’d have
cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment
growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in
a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have
said, “Later. Now go get washed up for dinner.”

There would have been more “I love you’s”.. more “I’m
sorry’s”….but mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize
every minute…look at it and really see it .. live it…and never
give it back.

Stop sweating the small stuff. Don’t worry about who doesn’t
like you, who has more, or who’s doing what. Instead, let’s
cherish the relationships we have with those who Do love us.
Let’s think about what God HAS blessed us with. And what we are
doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally,
as well as spiritually.

Life is too short to let it pass you by.

We only have one shot at this and then it’s gone.
I hope you all have a blessed day. 
















































~ by coachsusie on July 9, 2008.

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